Resolving conflict so your family can thrive
Estates & inheritance, family business, relationship repair, generational transitions
Welcome, I’m Kathy Holub.
I'm a conflict coach and mediator for families.
I can help you talk about the hard things – money, relationships, goals, fears – so you can make great decisions together and feel proud of them.
What if you could be done with this problem, with the whole family on board?
“Kathy taught me a new way of communicating with my mother that seemed to work magic . . . You have no idea how much of a burden was lifted from my thoughts.”
JANET | NJ
PARENTS:
Do you worry that your children will fight over your estate?
Are they arguing about it now – while you’re still here?
I can help you:
Talk with your children about what’s important to you
Find out what’s important to each of them
Craft a flexible plan with guidance from your advisors
Lay the groundwork for your children to collaborate for years to come
SIBLINGS:
Are you having the same argument over and over -- about an inheritance or a parent’s care?
Are your relationships frayed down to the last thread?
I can help you:
Be heard and understood
Meet shared goals without sacrificing your individual needs
Solve the problem together, so you can move on
WEALTH MANAGERS, LAWYERS, & OTHER FAMILY ADVISORS:
Do you have a client who’s trapped in a family conflict?
Do you wish you could help?
I can:
Advise you on how to help your client
Work with the client directly, if you prefer
Free you up to do what you do best
Conflict can be great for relationships -- if you have the skills
Most people are surprised when I say this. But think about it.
Conflict is inevitable, especially with people we're close to.
When we address a problem with love and skill, we send a powerful message: "When things get tough, I won't run away. I will hang in there with you until we find a solution."
It's an investment that can reap big returns. More trust. Less stress. Stronger relationships. Time and money saved on legal fights.
How does it work? My proven method will help you:
- Define the issues and understand them deeply
- Make a plan and implement it
- Explore differences without fear
- Create options with the help of your family advisors
- Find a solution that fits your family to a T
When you’re finished, you’ll be confident you can do it again.